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Shopping for a Swimsuit

           The swimsuit that I bought shortly after we got married no longer fits the way I would like it to fit. It's not bad, I could still wear it, but I wanted to get a new one. Something a bit more flattering to my figure. Something cuter.           I started out by ordering something online. When it arrived I tried it on. Despite carefully following the sizing guidelines, it didn't fit. That meant only one thing. I would have to return it and shop for another one in a store. I don't like shopping for clothes with so I knew that this was not going to be fun. However, there was no other way. I didn't want to keep ordering things.          Part of the challenge I have with swimsuits is that a traditional one piece doesn't work for me. I need a bit more coverage on the bottom. I also don't like to show a lot of skin, so traditional two piece suits don't work either. The best ones are the kind that hav...

Order

           One of the things my mother always told me was that I was a messy kid. For some reason putting things away was not something I cared about. Mom tried to teach me to put things away by hiding toys that I didn't put away. (I thought we might find  two lost dolls when we cleared the house after my parents moved out, but I think she may have thrown them away.) Once my brother got into high school, he moved to a bedroom downstairs and my sister and I got our own rooms. My sister is much more organized than I am and was getting irritated by all my piles of stuff.          It got a little better when I got older. I lived in the dorm when I was in college. Out of respect for my roommates and people visiting, I kept things put away. It helped that I tended to have less stuff to leave around.          Once I got a place of my own, I kept things fairly tidy. The fact that I didn't have much helped a lot...

Word Search

           This week I started a month long break from Facebook. This is the second year I've done it as part of my observance of the season of Lent. I remember how good it felt last year and how I planned to limit my use of that platform. After the month was over I slowly went back to my old habit of mindless scrolling.          Last year I remember it being hard to stop looking at it. I had to hide the links on my phone so it would be harder to get to it. Over time it got easier.           This year it seems to be no problem at all. One thing I knew I needed to do was find something to replace the time I spent scrolling. I haven't found a new knitting project to start yet and I didn't want to spend my time staring at You Tube videos. I was looking for something on a the shelf under my coffee table when I found a book of word search puzzles.           I opened it and saw t...

Valentine's Day

           Hi! This is Barnaby. I'm a handsome, fluffy, white and orange cat. I want to write about how much I love my humans.          My humans are Sophie and C. They are very good to me. I love them very much.          They have a lot of toys for Willow and me. I like to play with the toys. My favourite toy is this ball that rolls all by itself. It has a tail that I can chase. Sometimes I grab the tail. It runs on batteries and sometimes needs to be plugged in. One of the things I like about it is that it stops when I get tired of playing with it. I was playing with it a few weeks ago and it stopped, but I can't find it and neither can my humans. I hope we find it toon. I miss it.          I have other toys to play with. I like balls and springs. Every morning I bring a ball to Sophie so she can throw it to me. The rule is I have to bring the ball back to her and set it on the cou...

Things We Take for Granted-Microwave Edition

           We were eating breakfast last week when both of us noticed a strange smell in the kitchen. It was that warm plastic/electrical smell that always bodes trouble. After some wandering around, we confirmed that the smell was coming  from the microwave. The smoke coming out of the vent after I heated a cup of tea confirmed our suspicions.           After checking the plug to make make sure there were no sparks, C prudently unplugged it. Our plans for the next day had changed. We were going to go microwave shopping.          I use the term shopping loosely because we weren't really going to go to different stores. There is one locally owned appliance store down the street and that's where we went. We have bought things from them before. We prefer to patronize the smaller businesses when we can. It may cost slightly more but the customer service is better. If we have a problem with our purchase...

The Memorial Service

                Mom's memorial service took place yesterday. A small group of us gathered to pray and give thanks for having Mom in our lives. It was a good service as would have been expected from my siblings who planned it. There was a lot of singing which I found amusing as Mom in her younger years didn't like music. It was only when she got older that she enjoyed listening to songs and singing although she would admit she didn't sing very well.               I did the first reading which was a compromise. My brother immediately vetoed the two choices I made. While I didn't really think the psalm he chose was the best one, I was not willing to fight with him about it. We'd had way too much contention in our family over the years and I decided I wasn't going to be the source of any more.               The minister gave a good sermon using information my siblings...

It's Cold Outside

           It's cold outside, the thermometer on our furnace thermostat says it's -13 degrees. It's been cold like this for the past several days. You'd never know it by looking outside. The sun is shining and I think the wind is pretty minimal. Most people don't like weather like this. I don't mind it at all.          I went to college in North Dakota. It was a long time ago, but I remember a lot of below zero days there. I also remember it being windy most of the time. I learned to wear warm clothes especially a scarf if I had to be outside. I also learned  to shortcut through buildings as much as possible to get to my classes. As long as I was dressed properly, I knew I'd be all right. As long as I had what I needed I didn't need to be scared of weather like this.          There is another reason why I'm not bothered cold weather. It's a godsend for introverts like me. Most people don't want to go ou...